Transition days are often hard on children because they have to leave one parent and go to the other. This brings up conflicting emotions, but it’s necessary because of the circumstances.
Because children are already dealing with the challenges of that day, parents need to take steps to ensure that these transition days are as easy on the children as possible. These two tips may be beneficial.
1. Minimize what the children have to pack
Having to pack a bunch of stuff to go back and forth is often a stressor for the children. Instead of making them pack everything they need, it may be best for them to have necessities at both homes. The less they have to pack, the less likely they are to forget things.
2. Keep adult conversations for another time
A major source of stress for children occurs when they have to hear their parents argue. This can be avoided by saving those difficult conversations for times when the children aren’t around. Transition days should be a calm time when the children can take the time to adjust from one home to the other.
One of the best things parents can do when they split up is to set a parenting plan as quickly as possible. This should include the terms about what each party is responsible for and how specific situations, such as transition days, will be handled. Working with someone familiar with parenting plans and how to set them up so they reflect the child’s best interests is important.
